When I first arrived in New York on July 5, I can no recollection of what my three-week stay would entail. I would be alone for the first time without my parents in a city with 9 million people and a classroom full of strangers. I wasn't nervous, really- more excited. I'm already a super independent person, so being able to be more on my own was just what I needed. I've learned a few things from my stay here and would love to share them!
Meet new people
I've met some of the greatest and most talented people here. I will truly miss my friends here but will definitely keep in touch with them. As independent as I am, it was good for me to branch out and meet people from different parts of the world.
Find yourself
If anything, I feel more comfortable in my own skin. Before I came here, I was restless over a situation that had been finished and it was starting to kill my vibe. The more time I spent here, the more time I realized I was enough. Just me, my dream, a city I love, and people to spend my time with. I realized what I was good at and what I had a passion for, and it will only continue to fuel my drive for the future!
Venture out
Many days after class or on the weekends, my friends and I would go explore our area or go check out new restaurants. We loved, loved SoHo, Greenwich Village, and Chelsea. I've gotten comfortable with my area (Greenwich) and navigating myself around SoHo.
Subways are..complicated
I thought I would immediately understand the subway. Yeah, WRONG. Even after three weeks here, I only know a few stops by heart that I could go to and from without having to ask someone. Worst case scenario, do ask someone who works at the station or take a cab- don't walk around New York at night by yourself trying to find your way around.
See what it's like being on your own
As I mentioned before, I am already an independent person. Some people aren't, which is okay, but it is nice to learn how to do things for yourself. Sometimes, I would go take walks by myself just to be alone and enjoy the city. I had a curfew every night, but other than that, I did not have to ask my parents if I could go out everyday. It was nice being able to think for myself and get an accurate experience of what college will be like.
Not everyone is like you
I have a very good work ethic and the ability to get things done. Even with everyone in my class having an interest in fashion, not everyone had the dedication and love for it like other people. It would frustrate many of us when another student would not attend class for whatever reason, considering the program was so short and intensive, we felt very lucky to be here. I realized that it's important to accept not everyone will have the same love for fashion that I do, and that it's okay. I can only do me!
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